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St. Jane Frances

Born: January 28th, 1572

Died: December 13th, 1641

Feastday: August 12th

de Chantal

Patron of: forgotten people, widows, and parents who are separated from their
children

What a way to start a marriage! Jane no sooner arrived at her new home then she discovered she might lose it. Her
husband, Christophe, had not only inherited the title of baron but enormous debts as well.
But Jane had not come to the marriage empty-handed. She brought with her a deep faith instilled by her father who
made daily religious discussion fun, allowing the children to talk about anything -- even controversial topics. She also
brought a good-hearted way that made a friend comment, “Even stupid jokes were funny when she told them.”
These qualities helped the twenty-year-old French woman take charge by personally organizing and supervising every
detail of the estate, a method which not only brought the finances under control but won her employees’ hearts
as well.
Despite the early financial worries, she and her husband shared “one heart and one soul.” They were devoted to
each other and to their four children.
One way Jane shared her blessings was by giving bread and soup personally to the poor who came to her door.
Often people who had just received food from her would pretend to leave, go around the house and get back in line
for more. When asked why she let these people get away with this, Jane said, “What if God turned me away when I
came back to him again and again with the same request?”
Her happiness was shattered when Christophe was killed in a hunting accident. Before he died, her husband forgave
the man who shot him, saying to the man, “Don’t commit the sin of hating yourself when you have done
nothing wrong.” The heartbroken Jane, however, had to struggle with forgiveness for a long time. At first she tried
just greeting him on the street. When she was able to do that, she invited him to her house. Finally she was able to
forgive the man so completely that she even became godmother to his child.
These troubles opened her heart to her longing for God and she sought God in prayer and a deepening spiritual
life. Her commitment to God impressed Saint Francis de Sales, the bishop who became her director and best friend.
Their friendship started before they even met, for them saw each other in dreams, and continued in letters throughout
their lives.
With Francis’ support, Jane founded the Visitation order for women who were rejected by other orders because of
poor health or age. She even accepted a woman who was 83 years old. When people criticized her, she said, “What
do you want me to do? I like sick people myself; I’m on their side.” She believed that people should have a chance
to live their calling regardless of their health.
Still a devoted mother, she was constantly concerned about the materialistic ways of one of her daughters. Her
daughter finally asked her for spiritual direction as did may others, including an ambassador and her brother, an
archbishop. Her advice always reflected her very gentle and loving approach to spirituality:
“Should you fall even fifty times a day, never on any account should that surprise or worry you. Instead, ever so
gently set your heart back in the right direction and practice the opposite virtue, all the time speaking words of love
and trust to our Lord after you have committed a thousand faults, as much as if you had committed only one. Once we have humbled ourselves for the faults God allows us to become aware of in ourselves, we must forget them and go forward.”
She died in 1641, at sixty-nine years of age.
In Her Footsteps
We have been told the secret of happiness is finding: finding yourself, finding love, finding the right job. Jane believed the secret of happiness was in “losing,” that we should “throw ourselves into God as a little drop of water into the sea, and lose ourselves indeed in the Ocean of the divine goodness.” She advised a man who wrote to her about all the afflictions he suffered “to lose all these things in God. These words produced such an effect in the soul, that he wrote me that he was wholly astonished, and ravished with joy.”
Today, when any thoughts or worries come to mind, send them out into the ocean of God’s love that surrounds you and lose them there. If any feelings come into your heart -- grief, fear, even joy or longing, send those out into the ocean of God’s love. Finally, send your whole self, like a drop, into God. There is no past no future, here or there. There is only the infinite ocean of God.
Prayer: Saint Jane, you forgave the man who killed your husband. Help me learn to forgive a particular person in my life who has caused me harm. You know how difficult it is to forgive. Help me to take the steps you took to welcome this person back into my life. Amen
-from Catholic.org

Prayer of St. Jane

O sovereign goodness of the sovereign Providence of my God! 
I abandon myself forever to Thy arms. 
Whether gentle or severe, 
lead me henceforth whither Thou wilt; 
I will not regard the way through which Thou wilt have me pass, 
but keep my eyes fixed upon Thee,
my God, who guidest me. 
My soul finds no rest without the arms 
and the bosom of this heavenly Providence, 
my true Mother, my strength and my rampart. 

Therefore I resolve with Thy Divine assistance, 
0 my Saviour, 
to follow Thy desires and Thy ordinances, 
without regarding or examining why Thou dost this rather than that; 
but I will blindly follow Thee 
according to Thy Divine will, 
without seeking my own inclinations. 

Hence I am determined to leave all to Thee, 
taking no part therein save by keeping myself in peace in Thy arms, 
desiring nothing except as Thou incitest me to desire, 
to will, to wish. 
I offer Thee this desire, 0 my God, 
beseeching Thee to bless it; 
I undertake all it includes, 
relying on Thy goodness, 
liberality, and mercy, 
with entire confidence in Thee, 
distrust of myself, 
and knowledge of my infinite misery and infirmity. 

Amen!

-vistyr.org